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Is a lap dance the same as cheating? - 105 posts

Started 9 months ago by MoeV
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VaughnL86
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If the P goes in th V then its cheating

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Posted 8 months ago #
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Posted 8 months ago #
Schuey2k2
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@VaughnL86 So true!

Posted 8 months ago #
Suspect091
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I wouldn't get a lap dance from someone other then my g/f at the moment because it just wouldn't really feel right, I don't really think it's cheating but I wouldn't have it done if I was in a relationship.

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Posted 8 months ago #
Lancerbackstop
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If not money was involved, then its ok.

Posted 8 months ago #
Dwayne Jackson
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yeah i would say so. Because usually people who have marital problems or having relationship problems go to a strip club to get away from reality and try to live a fantasy for a little while by getting hard from a lapdance from a stripper or someting.

Posted 8 months ago #
BurningChrome
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imo there's no clear-cut answer; what it boils down to is whether or not your significant other and/or you consider it cheating...if so, then it's cheating...
but i know couples where the women buy lap dances for their husbands/boyfriends& vice versa...so, in those cases, i'd say it isn't cheating
so, in conclusion, if you are lucky enough to date ms. munn, then yes, a lap dance is 100% cheating, end of discussion.

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Posted 8 months ago #
Relyt
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I actually will have to agree with her on this one. Honestly, why would you want someone else whoha rubbing all over you if shes not your girlfriend? Its just a huge di** tease anyway. Congrats you just paid for someone to rub on you.

In my world, my past girlfriends have done it for free lol.

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Posted 8 months ago #
luscious lou
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last time i went to a strip club i witnessed a 300+ woman strip. talk about a buzz kill.

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Posted 7 months ago #
jaymesbry
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ewww i dont know what else could be a bigger buzz kill than that lou..

Posted 7 months ago #
mikeheartsmunn
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In no way is a lapdance cheating.
I haven't gone to a strip club and gotten one yet, by choice, but my girlfriend is basically like "if you wanna go get a lapdance, go for it. but you're coming home to me." then she looks at me and i know i'm in for it later (in the good sense)

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Posted 7 months ago #
Inverius
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Sharing intimate feelings with another person who isn't your wife/husband or significant other is cheating, and more importantly if you can't tell the person about what happened there is a sense of wrong doing. It's not as if your going to the strip club to get their half off appetizers special. It all comes down to trust there are probably many couples out there that trust each other enough to feel ok with their partner going out to a strip club, but more than likely they didn't get a lap dance or they care enough about the partner to tell them where they are going.

Posted 7 months ago #
Cyph
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nooo unless your girl's a total prude

Posted 7 months ago #
JerseyJesus
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Hmmm... What if the girl giving a lap dance is a friend? I'm personal friends with several adult film starlets who make money on the side in strip clubs.

I don't really see the big deal but that could just be me being a guy. I mean if you're some weirdo who goes to a strip club alone just looking for them then yeah it's break up time. But if going with a bunch of guys to hang out a-la male bonding, part of the reason people will do it is purely for a conversation piece not cause they HAVE to have one.

Meh to each their own.

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Posted 7 months ago #
david martinez
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just remember to watch out for "Snail Trails".

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Posted 7 months ago #
Loakum
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Yeah it's cheating, because you are participating in a sexual act with someone other then the person you're in a relationship with.

Posted 7 months ago #
noname
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No.
Lap dance is dancing- with more contact.

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Posted 7 months ago #
IcemanIII
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Wel to me no. It only depends on what happens next.

Posted 6 months ago #
seth_david_andrew
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It's all about proximity.
If you have another member of the opposite sex dancing on your lap, seems like that could be an issue.

It depends on the boundaries of your partner, though.

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Posted 6 months ago #
citizen
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agree with Inverius. emotional friend is way worse then lapdance.

Posted 6 months ago #
vaJAYMIE
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Yes if the guy welcomes it. If a girl goes up to him and he pushes her off. No. (but when will guy ever push someone off?)

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Posted 6 months ago #
Jack
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Die thread! Die!

Posted 6 months ago #
Danger Man
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Well, I've never had to physically push off a woman who wanted to give me a lap dance, but there have been times when I have politely declined such invitations. A couple of times it was because I simply didn't have the extra cash at the time, but mostly it's because I didn't really find the girl all that attractive.

I hope that answers your question, vaJAYMIE.

Posted 6 months ago #
vaJAYMIE
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Very true. Lol.

Posted 6 months ago #
IcemanIII
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OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOHHHHHHHHHHH wow. ya know i think that i've been given a lapdance ( by a girl o_0 ) but only as a joke but i just personally think that a walle is better.

Posted 6 months ago #
NKVD
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I say if you're comfortable getting one with your girlfriend sitting right next to and your truthful about getting one, then it's not cheating.

Cheating is something you hide from your partner for fear it will piss them off and ultimately, a break-up ensues. It's not cheating, at least in that particular relationship, if both parties are aware of what's going on and okay with each other's decisions.

Posted 4 months ago #
NKVD
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"and you're* truthful" -- sorry, amateur mistake.

So, if your girlfriend doesn't approve, then to HER in THAT relationship, it is considered cheating.

Posted 4 months ago #
Ashleyegd
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it's not cheating, but it's pretty messed up. Specially if it was a girl that he knew/friends with. If it was a stripper it wouldn't be so horrible, otherwise I'd be pretty pissed.

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Posted 4 months ago #
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Dammit.

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Posted 4 months ago #
Jhylla81
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One of the girls I used to hang out with at the bar used to get drunk and give all her friends lap dances, especially myself. Which is ok, except that one time when she convinced her coworker to give me one. He was a large black man. I still have nightmares... *shudder*

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Posted 4 months ago #