Is a lap dance the same as cheating?

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Is a lap dance the same as cheating? - 105 posts

Started 9 months ago by MoeV
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MoeV
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I remember Munn stating on Loveline, that she felt like a lap dance, while in a relationship, was the same as cheating. What do you guys think?

Posted 9 months ago #
Btab
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I would think so...unless of course the lap dancer is your woman!

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Posted 9 months ago #
jaycastle
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Hmmm.... I have to think bout that one. What do you think Moe?

Posted 9 months ago #
Gerrad
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Did you give her money? Cause if you gave her money you can file it as a business transaction. Ask for the receipt, just don't ask where she keeps the printer.

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Posted 9 months ago #
Denison
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It's not cheating...what's next guys can't have girl's as friends?...

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Posted 9 months ago #
KenBAMF
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Its only cheating if you penis goes into her while she does it...

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Posted 9 months ago #
Denison
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@ KenBAMF agreed. My friend Davis told me a while back that as well.

Posted 9 months ago #
KenBAMF
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@Denison well your friend Davis is obviously awesome, as are you for agreeing

Posted 9 months ago #
Denison
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@ KenBAMF He can be awsome at sometimes of the day other night's he's just whatever...I just think, lets just say a husband is there is that cheating? Even if he is not having sex with her? Maybe his wife is not making his man happy...I don't like 2 pick sides on whose right but when men go to strip clubs and get a lap dance that to me basically means there wife is not making the husbands or Boyfriends happy.. now am I right or am I right? I think every guy here can agree with that.

Posted 9 months ago #
RedEyedJedi
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Put the question the other way, if your girl got a lap dance by a guy, would you consider it cheating?

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Posted 9 months ago #
Denison
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@RedEyedJedi I just find it funny that a woman can find a guy doing something with a firend who is a girl and think they are cheating...like really come on, If my girl had male friends I wouldn't care it's just "Beyond the friend point" I get ready to kick some ass.

Posted 9 months ago #
heyolivia
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YES. i 100% think so.

Posted 9 months ago #
Gerrad
Member

@RedEyed Double standards are a real bitch Lol...

I think it is important to establish the boundries in a relationship. If the person your with says it is.. then you gotta respect that...

Posted 9 months ago #
Denison
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Everybody here has a point, But I do agree it depends on how the realtionship is. But my word stil l stands on what I think about it.

Posted 9 months ago #
KenBAMF
Member

Ill put it this way, if your girl is taking care of you, your not even gonna want a lap dance. @heyolivia aren't you supposed to be writing right now?

Posted 9 months ago #
Denison
Member

We got here distracted...and wants to know what this whole fuss was about lol. As long as your gf/bf isn't making the other one happy then you know why they are getting lap dances. - Case solved.

Posted 9 months ago #
MoeV
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Even if its a bachelor party in Vegas and if you don't get one all your friends will secretly think you have a vagina? Wow you guys are tough.

Posted 9 months ago #
awalker
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@heyolivia If a guy sneaks out and get a lapdance from a woman and he knows his wife/girlfriend wouldn't like it then I could see how you would consider it cheating. But if the girlfriend or wife is ok with it then I don't see the harm. But that's just me.

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Posted 9 months ago #
Sigh (DonSimeoni)
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if you do anything that you are too afraid to tell your partner about, you are cheating

meh...I'll do it later

Posted 9 months ago #
todosho
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hey Olivia.

what about watching Porn?
its pretty much the same thing

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Posted 9 months ago #
S0nntagskind
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Well, obviously whatever the conclusion of this discussion will be...if you girlfriend/wife disagrees, you are screwed.
Lol, try to explain her that it's not cheating as long as you have an acquittance...good luck with that.

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Posted 9 months ago #
bartz824
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I would consider cheating actually engaging in sexual relations with another woman. I know several guys that are in serious realtionships or married and they hang out with other women alot.

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Posted 9 months ago #
mike 80
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if lapdance is cheatin, so does mastubation, and riverdance

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Posted 9 months ago #
tlawrence3
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A lapdance isn't cheating. If it was, then getting a massage (IE a real massage at a spa (w/ no happy end)) would also be cheating. Might as well say, hugging a female friend in a bikini is cheating.

Had a GF that considered masturbation cheating (key word: HAD).

Posted 9 months ago #
Peaches
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YES. i 100% think so.

i agree with olivia

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Posted 9 months ago #
Sigh (DonSimeoni)
Member

when the crap was the last time you guys got a lap dance....? a hot girl rubbing her vagina on you and putting your hand on her tits is pretty effing sexual...

if you guys don't class that as a lapdance then you guys are getting screwed

Posted 9 months ago #
mike 80
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Posted 9 months ago #
Peaches
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@sigh

Posted 9 months ago #
Sigh (DonSimeoni)
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@ peaches... they are great... but sometimes questionable about said vagina

Posted 9 months ago #
Fores1ght
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Posted 9 months ago #