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   mlb923
   Member

   I'm 22 and in the midst of a lifetime of singularity. I have been friends with a girl for the better part of the last two years and we have gone through periods of being really close and being friends of timing and convenience, if that makes sense.

   Recently, the former has been the case.

   I have liked her since the early stages of our friendship, but timing issues put a damper on any possibility of putting it out there with any real chance at success. Now she has a BF and I wish she didn't, but timing is still a looming issue.

   But the friendship is one of the best things I have going for me, which makes me hate feeling the way I do.

   I don't know if this is anything uncommon, but it is a pretty big pain in the butt for me right now. Should I follow a "move on" mentality or "all good things come to those who wait"?

   Posted 5 months ago #
2. 

   GoodEats
   Member

   Start lifting weights then beat up her boyfriend

   RIP ODB

   Posted 5 months ago #
3. 

   briscojr
   Member

   I'm not the best at giving advice, but there's someone on here that I think is going to have the perfect solution to your problems.

   I am obsolete. This must be what old people feel like. And Blockbuster.
   - Dollhouse (R.I.P.)

   Posted 5 months ago #
4. 

   todosho
   Member

   you missed your chance the first 10mins of when you met her.

   now you're in the friendzone.

   like the twilight zone. it is impossible to get out once in.

   MOVE ON!

   http://www.twitter.com/todosho

   Posted 5 months ago #
5. 

   sammy
   Member

   todosho is right your the "friend" she sees you as nothing more. you can tell her how you feel but that's not going to work. she's not going to break it off with her bf just because you're in love with her. either except your relationship or move on and if you decide to move on tell her you're doing so. easier that way.

   twitter.com/sammyreynolds

   Posted 5 months ago #
6. 

   FuRyUs
   Member

   Tea bag her.

   The God with Horns! Worship him, bitches!!!

   lol

   Posted 5 months ago #
7. 

   Lyle T.
   Member

   Look theres two things that could happend if you tell her and she is not interested. 1#Eather she well understand you like her and eather keep the friendship or #2 more likely she is going to push you way far out of the picture.
   My advice is just to manup and just bow out.If you stick around it will be only for your own selfish needs. You dont have to make it full of drama.Just tell her you dont want be a third wheel because it is better then to lose your friendships all together.
   And just find someone else.There's like a million single girls out there.I think your chances are pretty good on finding someone.

   Posted 5 months ago #
8. 

   daniel
   Member

   @sammy
   But it worked for Jim and Pam.
   What do you mean Jim and Pam aren't real? I suppose you're gonna tell me there's no such thing as Dunder Mifflin Paper either. They gotta be real. There's a website and everything. Although I am sure there's no such place called Scranton.

   Why are you reading this? I have nothing to say to you.

   Posted 5 months ago #
9. 

   Gerrad
   Member

   Look, if you really like her and its meant to be, let her come to her own conclusions. It's a dick move to move on her when she is with another guy. Give her some space and wait. If they break up, then you can make a move, if they don't its not meant to be. Either way after enough time passes one of two things will occur, you'll break down and make a move, or realize its fruitless and move on.

   Hugs and Kisses to All of Your Pink Parts.
   http://soundsoflightandfury.blogspot.com/ or http://twitter.com/_Gerrad

   Posted 5 months ago #
10. 

    FuRyUs
    Member

    tell her you want to fist her. *interwebs advice*

    Posted 5 months ago #
11. 

    Gerrad
    Member

    Screw mine, go with his

    Posted 5 months ago #
12. 

    Jack
    Member

    @FuRyUs that's just crazy... he needs to tell her to fist him.

    Posted 5 months ago #
13. 

    mlb923
    Member

    I don't think fisting is a viable option...

    Posted 5 months ago #
14. 

    FuRyUs
    Member

    @mlb923 buy her this to loosen her up to new situations...

    Posted 5 months ago #
15. 

    GoodEats
    Member

    
    BLACK POWER!!

    Posted 5 months ago #
16. 

    briscojr
    Member

    Ebony and Ivory....
    dang it, they're out of stock. Who got the last one?

    Posted 5 months ago #

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